Wow, I just read this poem and love it.  Thanks for the wise words, Derek Wolcott.

“The time will come
when, with elation,
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror,
and each will smile at the other’s welcome
and say, sit here. Eat.

You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you have ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.

Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.”

-Derek Walcott

Drink it in.  Think of yourself and how true it is that the ultimate love affair of one’s life is with him or her self.